That was the year, that was!

Grl and I began this blog about a year ago, and it is fitting that on this last day of 2010, I should look back – and forward.

We’ve had a ton of fun together here, swapping sexey books, talking about stuff. Grl and I love and laugh our way through life, and I think the blog reflects this.

After a few months, Grl’s employment took her away on the road, where internet access is spotty, and her time wasn’t quite so plentiful, especially time researching sex sites on the web when sharing hotel rooms with workmates. We run another blog together, one that isn’t quite so explicit, so we still have fun, and fireworks on the few times we get together in real life.

But this blog kind of fell by the roadside for a while. We recruited Chica as a co-writer, but she never got into it, which is a pity, because as we read her private blog we realized that she was a whole lot spicier and sexier than either of us. Oooooh, the things she does! And she writes well about her experiences. Maybe we can talk her round…

A couple of months ago I looked at the stats for My GF Sez, and realized that despite not actually posting anything for a long long time, we were still getting hits. Quite a lot, actually. People were entering all sorts of things into search engines and winding up here and taking a look around and clicking on things. Just a step along the cyber road, but not a dead end. Not yet.

So I decided to get back into it, on a more solo basis. This isn’t going to be one of the great sex blogs, and I’m going to take my hat off to San Francisco’s own violet blue here, but I’ll do what I can and what I like.

What I like is looking at lovely ladies taking their clothes off, and talking about sex and against censorship and sharing a joke or an interesting website and just, well, writing about things that don’t belong on my other blogs.

Sex blogs come and go. We’ve seen a few go under in the past year, including a couple of biggies. Abby Lee’s Girl With a One Track Mind is pretty much comatose after two books and a heap of media time. A pity, because Abby wrote some sizzling stuff and got out and about talking about sexblogging at SXSW and other places. However, she never really got over being outed, which was obviously a major invasion of her personal life.

A lesser light, but still an entertaining read, was Tania Haze and her Confessions of a Nymphet. After an unexpected exposure, she retreated into private blogging.

The spunky and funky Twanna Hines has slowed down her posting rate, but still puts out a few salty words and pix.

Well, that was 2010. Fun but fractured.

For 2011, I’ve got plans. For starters, I’m going to indulge myself with regular reviews of Abby Winters shoots. Honestly, I can’t praise AW too much for a really positive attitude towards women and nudity and sexuality. There are new shoots on a daily basis, not to mention a rich back catalog.

I’m going to keep talking about sex and love and laughter. Opinions, news, photographs, books – whatever tickles my fancy.

And I’m going to begin a new series on virginity – how to lose it. I’ll be soliciting contributions, scouring the web, and writing about my own first time. Losing your cherry is an intensely personal and emotional experience and despite our ongoing and fantastic sex lives, we never forget our first time, do we?

I’ll also be looking for co-writers. Obviously it’s hard to replace the dynamic shared by Grl and I, but I’m not hunting down a sex partner, just someone who feels comfortable talking about stuff and is willing to spark me up with a little banter. Oh, and share in the vast revenues of the site – there are a few ads, but I’m keeping it restrained, because I find blogs with a little square of content surrounded by dozens of advertisements for sex toys and hot pussies and bulging bosoms just a teeny bit tacky.

So that’s where I’ve been, where I’m at, where I’m headed.

And finally, may all my readers relish 2011, filling it with sex, love and laughter! It’s a wonderful world out there – enjoy every day and share the experience with those you love. Happy New Year!

—Guy Sez